Muslims: How would you advise another Muslim who fornicates and is not able to stop?

Because of the environment she lives in, there is no one to encourage her to righteous deeds or to remind her when falls into wrong. The person does understand it is wrong repents yet falls back into the trap.Muslims: How would you advise another Muslim who fornicates and is not able to stop?
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and then just let go and make du'aa. you can only do this much. Guidance is only in Allah's hands.Muslims: How would you advise another Muslim who fornicates and is not able to stop?
Just tell them the punishment for forincation and tell them that they can only marry a Muslim man or Muslim woman who is also a fornicator. the punishment for fornication is to be whipped 100 times in public in front of a group of Muslim witnesses and banished from the scene of the crime for 1 year.
Try and help her to get married and reminder her of the punishment for fornication in the Qabr and in the hereafter. Show her a Islamic DVD on life after death or borrow her a book on this and don't forget to remind her that Allah's doors of forgiveness and mercy are always open to her until she approaches death
Salam


As a Muslim it is our duty to convey the message of islam.Therefor just warn him/her about the punishments and the verses that Allah has mentioned in Quran.Now it is up to her whether she believes or not.You have done your job and InshaAllah you will not held responsible for him/her.
fornicate meaning having sex with others and or before marriage?


That would take many hours of watching that person and talking to them and also reconstruct their social and private life. That would have to take someone that they really trust.
She should have the understanding of modesty and shame. The islamic stand on modesty.





You mentioned there is no one to encourage her to reighteous deeds.


If you allow then tell her to email me - adeebshums786@yahoo.com
That's life. Some people are able to learn from other people's mistakes...and some people have to learn by making their own.





Just be a shoulder to cry on when she needs it...and don't feel like you have to support her unhealthy habits.
Maybe if you talk to her on a daily basis. That way she has the notion to refrain fresh in her mind daily. After time, it will become her nature. People adapt, you know.
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slam, if it is the area then she isabit messed but she should have responsabiltys to control her self, her family should tell her so you should tell her read da quran s oshe can understand the rules
You have talked to her, you can pray for her, there isn't much else you can do. Maybe she should get married...???
Be Patient..


there is reason..
It is Allahs will ....you should not intervene